Let’s talk about washing your hair… without shampoo
If you’ve been hanging around curly TikTok, Instagram or the CGM world for more than five minutes, you’ve probably heard about co-washing. Some people swear by it. Others try it once, panic at the lack of foam, and never look back.
So what’s the truth? Is co-washing curly hair actually good for your curls or just another curly trend that only works for some people?
Let’s break it down, No gatekeeping. No rules. Just what works.
What even is co-washing?
Co-washing = conditioner washing.
Instead of using a traditional foaming shampoo, you cleanse your scalp and hair using a cream-based cleanser (or a conditioner designed to cleanse). There’s little to no lather, but there is cleansing happening — just in a much gentler way.
With curly hair being naturally drier, co-washing is all about keeping moisture in while still refreshing the scalp. Think less squeaky-clean, more soft-and-hydrated.
A great example? Bouclème Curl Cleanser is made specifically for curls, not just a random conditioner doing a job it wasn’t designed for.
Why so many curlies love co-washing
There’s a reason co-washing has a cult following, especially among wavy, curly and coily hair types.
💧 It’s super moisturising
Curly hair struggles to stay hydrated. Co-washing helps keep natural oils where they belong, meaning curls feel softer, juicier and less frizzy.
🌿 Kinder on sensitive scalps
If your scalp flares up easily, co-washing can feel like a breath of fresh air. No harsh surfactants, no stripping — just gentle cleansing with nourishing ingredients.
🔄 Helps curls keep their shape
Skipping harsh shampoos means less disruption to your curl pattern. Over time, many people notice better definition and less puff.
But… co-washing isn’t perfect (and that’s okay)
Here’s the part people don’t always talk about: co-washing doesn’t deep clean.
Because it prioritises moisture, it’s not always enough to fully remove:
- Heavy styling products
- Oils and butters
- Sweat and pollution
- Scalp buildup
If you’re layering gels, creams and oils (hello, Curly Life faves!), that buildup will catch up eventually.
That’s why we always recommend pairing co-washing with an occasional detox. Bouclème Scalp Exfoliating Shampoo is perfect for this, it resets your scalp without destroying your curls.
Also worth noting: if your hair is very fine, low-porosity or your scalp gets oily fast, co-washing alone might leave you feeling a bit flat or coated. In that case, Hydrating Hair Cleanser is a better everyday option, gentle, but with a light lather that actually cleans.
So… is co-washing right for you?
Co-washing works best if:
- Your curls feel dry no matter what
- Your scalp is sensitive
- You wash frequently
- You want softer, less frizzy curls
You might struggle with it if:
- Your hair is very fine
- Your scalp gets oily quickly
- You love heavy stylers and rarely clarify
And that’s okay. Curly hair is personal. There’s no gold star for co-washing full time.
How to co-wash properly (this part matters)
Most “co-washing doesn’t work” stories come down to technique.
Here’s how to do it properly:
Start with soaking wet hair
Water is key. The wetter, the better.
Use enough product
Don’t be shy. You need slip.
Massage your scalp properly
This is where the cleansing happens. Use your fingertips, not your nails.
Detangle while you’re in there
Use fingers, a wide tooth comb or a detangling brush while the cleanser is in.
Rinse. Then rinse again.
Seriously. Most greasy results come from not rinsing enough.
Detox every few weeks
Even co-wash lovers need a reset. Your scalp will thank you.
Our go-to Bouclème shampoo options
Curl Cleanser – creamy, moisturising and curl-friendly co-wash
Fragrance Free Curl Cleanser – co-wash perfect for sensitive scalps
Hydrating Hair Cleanser – shampoo with low lather when you want a gentle lather
Scalp Exfoliating Shampoo – for detox days
Mix and match based on how your scalp feels — not what the internet tells you.
Co-wash 101
Co-washing isn’t about ditching shampoo forever. It’s about giving your curls options.
Some weeks your hair wants moisture. Some weeks it wants a clean slate. Learning to listen to your curls (and your scalp) is the real curly win.
If your hair feels dry, frizzy or over-cleansed — co-washing might be the missing piece. And if it’s not? That’s fine too. We’ve got you either way 💛
Ready to try co-washing the right way?
Shop Bouclème at Curly Life Australia and build a routine that actually works for your curls.
